Be that as it may, my favorite version of the Don Juan legend is the 1994 movie, “Don Juan de Marcos” starring Johnny Depp, Marlon Brando, and Faye Dunaway.  In fact, several of the women in my life were adamant that every man between the ages of 12 and 92 MUST watch this movie at least 10 times and take copious notes.  I think this movie struck a cord with women and men would be well advised to listen.

That being said, here are some “Don Juan Principles” you can try out in your life:

1.  When you’re going out on the town, dress “dashing.”  Don’t just throw on anything you can find in your closet that would make you look like 98% of the other guys out there.  Make an effort to stand out from the crowd by the clothes you choose to wear.  Remember, first impressions last.

2.  Be assertive!  Don’t congregate with all the other guys.  Do you think your dream woman is going to crash that hurdle to ask YOU to dance?  I don’t think so.  Make the first move. Get out on that dance floor and steal the girl who has caught your eye.

3.  Project confidence.  Walk around like you own the night and every girl there will feel lucky to be seen with you.

4.  When you make contact with your dream girl, don’t just “talk” nonsense stuff to make conversation.  Complicate her; ask her opinion about things; be humorous – show her you’re not the usual run-of-the-mill guy on the make.  Let her know there is some substance to you.

5.  When you are seated with her at a table, and you’ve bought her a drink, keep the conversation going. Ask her how she feels about things – get her talking about her emotions and feelings.  Don’t get nervous and segue into “chit-chat.”

6.  At this point, if you would like her phone number, be smart about asking.  Say something definite like, “Would you like to have dinner with me next week?  How can I get a hold of you?”

Turn yourself into a dashing Don Juan, and your success with the ladies will become legendary.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Nice shoes. Wanna bang?”

“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”

“Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.”

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

This simply is not true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

Understand: The whole point of using a pick up line is to get a conversation started.

That is all.

Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Good pick up lines help you do this.

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why do you think this is?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s weird for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”

Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children’s zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Children 2. Marriage 3. Astrology 4. Pregnancy 5. Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility – as a general rule, no matter what your sign is – you are compatible!)

“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how conversations are started!

From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.

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