Dating Tips For Guys

’2nd Chance’ Review

This 2nd Chance Review will give you a clear picture of how you might benefit from using Mirabelle Summer’s book “2nd Chance”. Before getting into this review. I’m going to warn you that the author is writing from a completely emotionally removed perspective. So in spite of how effective and insightful the advice in this book is, it’s important that you have the emotional maturity to actually practice them and to get results.

Let’s start this 2nd Chance Review with a breakdown of what the course teaches you…

2nd Chance Review: Summary of Strong Points

Most of the time when a relationship comes to an end (especially if you’ve been dumped), it seems pretty much hopeless to revive it. So most of the advice out there is centered more on how to put your life back together after a break up. Of course, the other course of action is to beg and plead and hope that you can win your ex back, which just puts you in a position of weakness and humiliation.

What you get in this book is a simple step-by-step process to reposition yourself as a man of value; a man who has clearly learned from his mistakes and has become a better person because of it. It tells you exactly how to resist the instinctual responses which just lower your social value and convince her that she made the right decision in taking ditching you.

The course follows a six step process which helps you to survive the “mourning” phase, regain your self confidence, regain her trust…and most of all, have her thinking that she’d be foolish not to get back with you again. Here’s a sneak peek at the principles which are covered”

Dealing with the ex that’s ignoring you

Getting out of the “just be friends” category

How to deal with the situation where she’s moved on

Dealing with the ex who has become indifferent and emotionally removed from you

Dealing with the belief that you have lost her love

Of course, as part of this 2nd chance review I HAVE to mention that the value of a female perspective in this book makes it one of the most insightful guides out there. You probably already know that female perspectives can sometimes be misleading and confusing when it comes to the world of dating. But Mirabelle Summers is like one of those female friends that every guy needs in his life.

She doesn’t pull any punches or try to glaze over some of the most obviously frustrating challenges of relating with women. You just get the full picture from someone who clearly knows why women fall in love, why they fall out of love and what can encourage them to fall back in love…with you.

2nd Chance Review: Bonus Features and Conclusion

To conclude this 2nd Chance Review, I’d like to add that the two bonus books on happiness and on surviving the pain of a breakup actually add a lot of value and aren’t your run of the mill free bonus books. Together with the feature book “2nd Chance,” these guides can help you do more than just get your ex back. They hold the secret to helping you get your life together so that when you do win her back, you’ll be able to make it better than it was before you lost her.

If you’re like most guys, you’ve probably seen a gorgeous woman and thought:

“If I knew how to attract beautiful women like her, all would be right with the world.”

Ah yes! The world is full of beautiful women. You see them every time you leave your house, and you probably even dream about them at night. And do you know what? Most of them are looking for a good man to share their life with. Most of them are frustrated that all the good men seem to be “taken.” All of those women LOVE sex! And like you, they’re looking for a good man who can fulfill their wildest fantasies in the bedroom.

And there’s no reason why the man they end up with can’t be you. All it takes is for you to get ahold of the rock solid secrets for how to attract beautiful women…

Secret #1: Know How to Flirt With Women

Plenty of men know how to get a girlfriend, but few men really know how to attract beautiful women. Why is this? Because the majority of the male population has no idea how to flirt with women. Sure, they can strike up a conversation with her, and perhaps even ask her out on a date. But even men who have the skills and the guts to do this still get shot down constantly.

If you want to make sure that you are not one of these unfortunate dudes, you have to know how to flirt with women the RIGHT way. A few simple rules to flirting with hot women are:

• Know when to move ahead and know when to pull back
• Know how to withhold a kiss or even physical contact until she is aching for it
• Not being afraid to touch her and enter her space

Learn to use these, and you’ll set yourself apart from the majority of men who don’t know how to get a girlfriend that they really want. Instead, they are forced to settle for what’s left over when the alpha males are done choosing. If you learn how to attract beautiful women by creating red hot attraction with flirting, you’ll be the alpha male that every other man is so envious of…

Secret #2: Be a Man of High Social Value

Do you know why most men don’t understand how to attract beautiful women? Because they’re too focused on “getting the woman” instead of presenting themselves a man of value. Let’s be honest, beautiful women aren’t going to fall all over and a man who has low social value, they have too many men competing for their attention.

So what’s your social value? When you go out, are you all by yourself or are you surrounded by friends? Do the women you meet see you as a man who has lots of options in his life as far as dating goes? If not, it’s time for you to begin increasing the size of your social circle or at least making sure that the woman you are interested in sees that you’re someone who is well-liked by others and desired by women.

You can bet that if beautiful women see you as this kind of man, they’ll consider you to be worth their time. Of course, there are other secrets and strategies to learn, but these are two that you can start with. With a little practice and persistence you’ll develop the skills which will help you understand how to attract beautiful women.

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How would you like to use body language to attract women and have the upper hand before you even speak a word to her? In case you’ve been wondering how important this is in regard to learning how to attract women, it might interest you to know that sociologists estimate that about 90% of our communication is non-verbal. This means that if you don’t know how to use body language to attract women, you might be more challenged in communication than a deaf person who knows the rules of body language.

Well, if you’re ready to do something about this and ready to use the magic of body language to attract women, then here are three things you need to start doing today….

1. Get Rid of Insecure Gestures

The next time you’re out in public, start paying attention to other men’s body language and see what it tells you about their personality. You’ll notice right away that gestures such as fidgeting, looking around uncertainly, indecisive movements and slumped posture tells you that they are insecure or unsure of themselves.

Now when it comes to using body language to attract women, how do you think these kind of guys might appear to a woman who has never met them? Making these kinds of observations ought to be enough for you to start correcting your own insecure body language gestures.

2.  Take up Some Space

Have you ever noticed that some men take up more space than others?  They take up a lot of space and they almost always look as if they were on their home turf. They don’t try to guard around and dodge other people or go out of their way to make room for others. These are guys who use body language to attract women because they demonstrate that they are confident and dominant men, which women find very attractive.

Their movements are normally slower, more decisive and they appear sure of themselves. Pick out a few of these guys (movie stars are usually good examples), and start taking on their body language characteristics.

3.  Entering Her Space

Probably the most effective key to using body language to attract women is not being afraid to enter her personal space when you’re talking to her. This doesn’t mean that you get up in her face, what it means is that it demonstrates to her that you are comfortable with being close to her, and (when you’ve been speaking with her for a few moments) touching her.

You’d be amazed at how much confidence you can communicate through light touches on the hand, playful little pokes, hip checks and other flirty movements that show you that you aren’t afraid to enter her space. Of course, personal touches like this can be a little uncomfortable for both of you at first, so it’s a good idea to warm things up by touching personal items of hers like her jewelry, her cell phone or other things that she’s carrying.

And finally, get out there and get some practice using body language to attract women. No matter how much you read things like this, you’ll always get more benefit from real life experience. Also, as you practice the above tips, you’ll have the opportunity to see how people respond to you. After enough of this you’ll become much more comfortable and confident in your ability to use body language to attract women.

Did you know that having more fun actually makes you a more fun person? Don’t get so caught up in wanting a girlfriend that you forget to do the things you enjoy. Keeping up with your interests and hobbies, and creating new ones, is a great way to relax, stay happy, and become a more interesting, fun person.Interesting, fun people are also confident, attractive people who have lots to talk about on their dates. Don’t worry that your hobby isn’t one that women usually enjoy. There are women out there who love fantasy football, some who are obsessed with gaming, and some who are expert mechanics.

If those women don’t happen to live near you, there are other women who may not enjoy actually doing the same things you do, but they can appreciate something about your interests and encourage you to pursue them.

A woman might have no interest at all in muscle cars, but your project car might remind her of her dad’s motorcycle. She might think that a guy who doesn’t spend Thanksgiving watching football isn’t normal.

Or, she might have always wanted to learn something about your hobby but was too shy to ask anyone to teach her. If you have serious doubts about whether a woman will understand your interests, you can always try new ones.

If you’ve always wanted to try something, now is a good time to try it. Skydiving? Rock climbing? Volunteer work? As long as you get out of your routine and have fun, it doesn’t really matter.

Going new places and doing new things also increase your chances of meeting new people. One reason you may not have tried new things before may be that you never had the money to do it.

This is another reason it’s important to have your finances in order. You don’t need to go bankrupt to finance new interests. A smarter plan is to save money to do the things you want to do. If you have the money, go ahead. If you don’t, make a plan to save the money until you do have enough.

When you meet a woman after your new experiences, be careful not to brag. Enthusiasm is attractive – bragging isn’t. You can talk about how exciting it was, how much you learned, and what else you’d like to do, but don’t start going on about how rich you are, how brave you are, how much pain you can stand or you’ll sound self-absorbed and she’ll move on without a second thought

On the other hand, if you do the things you enjoy, discover new interests, and talk enthusiastically about accomplishing your goals, women will see you as an enthusiastic, interesting, motivated person with fascinating stories to tell, whether she shares your interests or not.

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Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Nice shoes. Wanna bang?”

“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”

“Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.”

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

This simply is not true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

Understand: The whole point of using a pick up line is to get a conversation started.

That is all.

Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Good pick up lines help you do this.

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why do you think this is?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s weird for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”

Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children’s zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Children 2. Marriage 3. Astrology 4. Pregnancy 5. Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility – as a general rule, no matter what your sign is – you are compatible!)

“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how conversations are started!

From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.

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Women are extremely good at gauging relationships by reading body language. They also use very clear signals they give to show their emotions – which is why so many women find it hard to believe their boyfriends had no idea they were upset.

Practically all women can tell if a man is interested in them. Isn’t it time you learned how to tell if a woman is interested in you? The first and most classic sign that a woman is interested in you is when she meets your eyes.

She might smile or not, but if she’s looking at you without looking hostile, you’ve caught her attention, most likely in a good way. The next thing you should do is meet her eyes and smile back.

A woman might also check herself in the mirror, touch her hair, or smooth out her clothes. This is a great sign that she wants to make a good impression on you. She might also throw her shoulders back or roll her hips slightly – that means she thinks you’re good-looking.

If she’s sitting down, she might lean towards you, cock her head to make her neck seem longer, or slowly cross and uncross her legs in front of you. If you’re both sitting down and having a conversation, a woman who is comfortable with you might sit with one leg tucked under her, or might dangle her shoe from the toe of one foot.

If she’s looking into your eyes too, there’s no doubt she’s extremely interested. On the other hand, if a woman isn’t interested, her eyes will slide right past you. She might be polite if you introduce yourself, but she’ll look away as soon as possible.

Women who don’t want to continue a conversation will turn their bodies away from you and might even turn toward the door. She might fold her arms, cross her legs and leave them crossed, or move away from you. Most likely, the conversation is a lost cause and you probably ought to move on.

If you’re boring a woman, she might lean away from you and rest her head in her hand, or tap her fingers or her foot. If she’s looking at you blankly, without blinking, she’s zoned out and isn’t paying attention anymore.

This is a good time to change the subject, maybe with a compliment and a question like, “That color looks good on you. Is it your favorite color?” or “What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?” With luck, she’ll shake herself out of it and you’ll get another shot at a conversation.

Learning how to tell if a woman is interested is pretty easy. Women want you to understand them, and they make their body language simple and clear. Learn to read it, and you’ll be able to tell if she likes you, if she’s comfortable with you, and if she’d like to date you – all without saying a word.

If you want to learn even more about body language, then you’ll want to check out Conversation Chemistry. You’ll learn how to talk to, use the power of body language, and other important forms of communication, to create and maintain long lasting attraction with the opposite sex.

Why do women universally love men in uniform? It could have something to do with the strength of purpose and confidence projected by uniformed men – but more likely it’s the fact that uniforms are made to make men look their best.

Tailored or at least well-fitting clothing gives the same impression. You may not give a lot of thought to the ideal masculine figure, but your goal is to choose clothes that make your shoulders look broad and your hips look narrow.

Anything that’s sloppy, slouchy, or that hangs off you isn’t going to make your body look good. When you get dressed in the morning, keep these three words in mind: Simple, clean, classic.

You don’t have to dress like your grandpa, but you do have to look like you care about how you look. You also need at least one good suit in a flattering, neutral color, and also dress shoes, dress socks, a nice belt, and a new tie.

Never, ever, under any circumstances, wear pleated pants.  Choose flat-front, straight-leg pants – always. Anything else will make your hips look curvy, and that’s just not a good look for men.

The same goes for pants that don’t fit your waist. “Muffin-tops” and sagging pants are equally bad. Some women put up with them, but all women secretly wish you’d wear clothes that fit.

Don’t wear clothes that look like they came out of the trash. When your old clothes wear out, just buy new ones. If you don’t have a lot of money, make some room in the budget. If you’re attached to your old college T-shirt that looks like rats have been chewing it, keep it – just don’t wear it anywhere.

Don’t wear T-shirts with crude or negative slogans or pictures on them. Women take all forms of communication very seriously, and they do read your shirts. She doesn’t care that “at least it’s new” if she doesn’t like the message. You might want to avoid anything on a T-shirt except abstract designs, just to be sure you don’t send the wrong impression.

Wear mostly neutral colors: black, brown, tan, khaki, and dark denim for pants and jackets. White is also a neutral, but it isn’t very practical and not all men look good in it. Then, for shirts and ties, choose a few colors that look good with your skin and hair color. Darker skin and hair usually looks better with brighter colors, and lighter skin and hair looks better in toned-down colors.

Stick to these rules and you’ll look good enough to attract a woman. After you have a girlfriend, she’ll probably be happy to help you look even better. After all, she wants to be proud to be seen with you!

When you meet a woman, you want to be very clear that you’re looking for someone to date and that you’re not already in an exclusive relationship. It’s also a good idea to do that without looking desperate.

Sometimes it’s hard to strike that balance, but if you succeed, it’ll be easy to meet interesting women who are interested in you. Here are a few things to keep in mind when you’re trying to appear attractive and available:

• You don’t need a girlfriend. They’re great to have around, but if you don’t get a date tonight, you aren’t going to die. You aren’t even going to be bored, because you’re a fun and interesting person who is capable of entertaining himself. If the women you meet don’t accept your offer of a date, you have a backup plan.
• Most women are friendly, polite, and will try their best to give you a chance. Your job is also to be friendly, polite, and to try your best to give them a chance.
• Nothing is at stake when you first introduce yourself. All you’re trying to do is say hello. You don’t have to follow up with a brilliant conversation or a grand gesture – you can move on to someone else if you want.
• If you introduce yourself to enough single women, sooner or later one will begin a conversation with you. And a conversation is halfway to a date.
• Keep your body language open. Keep your hands open and out of your pockets, and your arms and legs uncrossed. Practice maintaining a confident posture without looking arrogant.
• Try not to get too concerned about how important your first impression is. It’s important, but a bad impression can usually be fixed if you catch it early. And if you can’t fix it, there are still other women to meet.
• Your first goal isn’t to meet women and get a date. Actually, your first goal is to practice giving the appearance of a confident, secure, interesting person. Once that starts feeling comfortable, you’ll have women introducing themselves to you.
• There are a few gestures you can use to show a woman you’re interested in her – meeting her eyes, straightening your tie or coat, and straightening up your posture. She is guaranteed to pick up on these, even if it’s only subconsciously.

The main thing to remember is this: you may be interested in a woman, but you can still live without her. And that’s the key to being available but not desperate.

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Where you meet a woman has the power to define the rest of your relationship. This is true because of three things: First, because where a woman spends most of her time says a lot about the kind of person she is.

If she’s outgoing and likes to party, chances are you’ll meet her at a club. If she’s athletic and competitive, you might find her at a race. If she’s into humanitarian causes, you might bump into her while building a house for Habitat for Humanity.

Second, she’ll remember where you met, and that will affect her perception of you. If you meet her at a club, she might assume you only want a casual relationship. If your friends introduce you to her, she’ll know that your friends and her friends already think you might be a good couple, and you’ll probably still see each other sometimes even if you break up.

Third, if she makes a big impression on you when you meet, you’ll also remember what circumstances you met under. You might always think of her as the wild girl at the club, even if she normally doesn’t go to clubs. These things set the tone for your relationship.

Of course, the circumstances that you meet under don’t have to define the rest of the relationship, but it takes work to erase any negative impressions either one of you might have made. And the very beginning of a relationship is not a good time for problems.

The best place to meet women is during the course of your real life. You shouldn’t have to go out of your way to meet women. If you don’t see women with the potential to be great girlfriends during your everyday routine, then you need to get out more.

Don’t worry about coming across someone perfect unexpectedly. That’s really the best way to meet women – it’s hard to look desperate for a girlfriend when you’re just going about your business. You can be approachable and attractive even when you aren’t trying to be.

Learning how to meet women anywhere makes dating easier on you in the long run. If the only reason you went somewhere was to find single women, you’re going to have a hard time explaining why you don’t want to go back when you have a girlfriend.

Desperate men chase after women, and you don’t have to be desperate. Meet women wherever you are and leave a good impression, and sooner or later one is going to show you that she’s interested.

Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. Gentlemen, you simply have to date girls if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.

Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls.They are:

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.

Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.

Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.

Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.

Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.”

That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.

Do you know how to keep a woman happy?  Here is some advice on relationships for men.

The first advice on relationships item I have for you is to always be yourself.  Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show.  But a confident man is the sexiest beast around.  Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women?  That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Next, you should do the little things.  This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time.  Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her.  You shouldn’t take her for granted.  Let her know that you value her.

Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her.  Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at.  They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.”  This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women.  Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children.  They can’t help it.  That’s how evolution designed them.  So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.

You should try to make her laugh.  While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor.  So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests.  It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers.  If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it.  This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes.  And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt.  So, shave on weekends.  Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.  In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her.  You can unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends.  A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over.  So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents.  A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.  Make an effort.

You should always be considerate of her feelings.  Women are less stable than guys.  Part of this is hormonal.  When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things.  At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss.  But, after a while, these things become routine.  If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up.  Try something new.  It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson called “The Magic Of Making Up“. After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.

You might want to check out “The Magic of Making Up” yourself.

Women can spot a “guy friend” at fifty paces, and you don’t want to be pegged that way! Certainly, good friend characteristics are similar to good boyfriend characteristics. These are: honesty, loyalty, respect, “being there” for her, attentiveness and reliability.

Here’s the thing – those are also characteristics of a good dog. So, what you need is to have those, plus boyfriend characteristics that add to what you’re offering. You can overdo it with all those wonderful traits and end up seeming, again, like a trusted friend, but nothing else.

Let’s look at how women decide what makes a good friend, and what makes a good boyfriend. We’ve already talked about what we’ll now refer to as “dog traits.” That’s not meant to downplay the value of those characteristics at all.

They’re extremely valuable in life. But we need to find out what you must add (or even take away) to get on the potential boyfriend list. One the one hand, a woman doesn’t necessarily want a guy who has had a long list of romances and seems to move from one woman to the next as if there’s a production line.

On the other hand, if she knows you’ve been single forever, she’ll take that as a huge warning sign in neon. But what if you have been single forever? This might be a bit underhanded, and honesty is a very good thing, but you might want to find a way to keep from having that particular truth advertised without lying about it.

You can say that it’s been awhile. You can say that you took some time after your last break-up to find out what was really important in life. You can say that while you do want to share your life with someone, you felt it was important to take time to be alone after your last break-up.

But telling a woman you’ve never had a date will make you sound desperate, and you’ll most likely end up on the good friend list. Here’s another thing that will get you on the best friends forever list, but will ban you from the boyfriends list: sharing your own “must-have” list for the woman of your dreams.

If you care about ever getting a quality date, or a wife, keep your list to yourself because whoever you end up with is most likely not going to have all those things, and she’s not going to be happy knowing that while you and she are having dinner, you’re going through your checklist to size up her shortcomings.

Women want to be accepted for who they are. Yes, there are always things that you would like to be different about her. There are things she’d change about you, too. Women aren’t without lists. But smart daters keep it to themselves.

We’ve already talked a little about desperation. There’s no place for it in dating and romance. Sometimes, it’s hard not to feel desperate, but you’re going to have to put that aside.

If you ask a woman out and she refuses, accept it and move on. Don’t ask her why and don’t keep bugging her. Be gracious about the refusal and start looking for someone else to ask out.

If you pester and demand to know why, you’re going to look desperate. If you just move on, you’re doing yourself a huge favor. She may even find you suddenly a bit more attractive if you don’t get all devastated about her rejection.

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When it’s time to strike up a conversation with a woman, some guys (maybe you), get shy and tongue-tied, only to end up frustrated and angry at themselves for not knowing what to say or how to say it.

Or maybe you just don’t want to say anything because you’ve gotten the brush off before and you assume it’s because of what you said. If this sounds like you, take heart. You don’t have to spend the rest of your life spouting gibberish at every pretty girl you see and then slinking home in embarrassment.

Women like to see confidence in a man. Not cockiness, but confidence. You have to find ways to project that. Confidence is projected not only by what you say, but the way you walk and stand, and by other kinds of body language like eye contact and your smile. Here are some good tips for helping you get past your shy, tongue-tied self.

1.Walking and standing – Don’t try the John Travolta Saturday Night Fever walk unless you’ve got the music going in the background! Walking with confidence means that you’re posture is straight, your head is up and shoulders relaxed (not slumping). It should look natural. If you don’t think you can do it, watch your favorite actors, politicians, sportscasters, etc., and emulate them. If this sounds stupid just remember that if you have a Napoleon Dynamite walk (or run), you’re going to look awkward. Confident standing is a natural extension of a confident walk. You need to be straight, but relaxed. You don’t have to look like a Marine at attention. Folding your arms makes you look defensive or like you’re hiding something. You’re better off putting them in your pockets or holding a drink or file or car part or your grocery bag.

2.Eye contact – You have to be able to look a woman in the eye. Staring is wrong, unless you want to scare her. When you are talking to her, look at her for a few seconds, and then briefly look away – not like you’re distracted, just natural eye movement. At the beginning of a conversation, when you are greeting her and introducing yourself, hold eye contact for a few seconds and smile. The same thing should happen at the end of the conversation. This is tricky. Just do what comes naturally, unless your natural inclination is to look at the floor or stare during the whole conversation.

3.Smile – Smiling is like eye contact. Utterly necessary, but easy to overdo.

4.The talk – Now that you have figured out how to project confidence visually, you need to back that up with conversation. Any conversation you have with a new woman should be positive and fun. If you need to rehearse a few different opening lines that can be used for any occasion that’s fine. If you’re at the gym, you can smile and ask her what she thinks of the new row of elliptical machines that have been added. If you’re at church, you can mention how much you like that Pastor So-and-So adds humor to his sermons. If you’re at the NASCAR race, you can compliment her on her choice of favorite driver (as indicated by the t-shirt or ball cap she’s wearing). If she smiles and seems interested in having a conversation with you, you need to confidently take the ball and run. Be prepared.

Talking to new women can be nerve-wracking, but it’s a necessary pre-requisite to dating. Take some time to prepare yourself to present a confident you, and let nature take its course.

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Things are going great on your date. You and she have had fun, great conversation and you like her a lot. Should you try to kiss her?  The first date kiss is always a bit of a conundrum.Some say you should never try to get a kiss on the first date, and others say that if she seems willing, why not? Your best bet is to check your own feelings and check her body language to see if a kiss is in order.

If you really sincerely like her, and you think a kiss is appropriate, then from your side of the equation, it’s okay. If you’re iffy about how you feel about her after the date and you’re not certain you’re planning to ask for a second date, then don’t bother – it might confuse her and lead to problems in the future. If you aren’t into her, leave kissing and everything else alone.

Next, you need to be aware of signals that she’s sending. If she’s leaning in, that’s a pretty sure sign that she’s into you and would like a kiss. If the two of you are cuddled close with your arms around each other, it’s a safe bet she’d give you a green light.

If she’s affectionately touching you on the hand, arm or shoulders, you can try a kiss. Some women don’t bother with innuendo and simply ask for a kiss. If so, you’re in luck. But remember, it’s okay for her to ask, but not so much for you to ask. You need to relax and wait for her signal.

Having said all of that, there is a school of thought that says you should be a complete gentleman and not kiss her on the first date regardless. This might gain points for you as a sincerely nice person, since every girl knows that the bad boys will go in for the kill as soon as possible.

If you refrain from trying to kiss her, it’s possible that she’ll view you as a gentleman, but it will also intrigue her a bit and make her wonder if you like her as much as she likes you. There’s nothing wrong with letting her wonder – it’s part of the dating game, too.

You can substitute taking her hand in yours and telling her what a great time you had. You can even give her a gentle peck on the forehead or the cheek. Some women consider this especially sweet, but they’re still left wondering a little, and in this case, that’s good.

That first kiss is always an anticipation-filled event. But if your timing is off, or if she isn’t into you yet, you’re going to end up disappointed. It’s better to wait for the right signals, and be aware of how you feel, too. If you’re into each other, it will happen at the right time under the right circumstances.

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What is it about women that makes them so hard to figure out? Some men think that women are only attracted to jerks. Some men are convinced that women want money and security. Others are sure that women only want men just like their fathers. And some have decided that not even the women themselves know what they want.

None of those ideas are accurate. The truth about what women want is simple. And here it is: Each woman is different. In order to know exactly what she wants, you need to ask her. If that doesn’t match up with what you already have to offer, then you need to move on.

That said, there are several qualities that most women desire in a man, and it doesn’t hurt to see which ones you have or are willing to develop. In fact, it can help you a lot in your personal life.

Most women want a secure, confident, financially and emotionally steady man. The details may be different, but the effect is the same: a man who has a stable life isn’t likely to ruin theirs.

Some women who’ve been brought up in an unstable home are going to be a little confused about the meaning of a stable life, but for the most part, women like relationships that are a safe bet to improve their lives.

Your attitude, above all, is going to determine how attractive you are. If you take care of yourself physically, emotionally, financially, and mentally, you are already more attractive than any man out there who thinks women only like jerks.

If your financial affairs are in order, you are free to see the difference between women who only want money and the ones who are truly interested in you. If you carry yourself in a confident manner, you are already more attractive than men who think women only want younger versions of their fathers or that they don’t have any idea what they want.

What women want is simple, easy to learn, and follows common sense. You don’t have to do crazy things to get noticed or make yourself attractive. You need to do just the opposite – be practical in your everyday life and it will pay off later.

So now, your homework is to look at your life and see the areas that need to be taken care of. If you have problems, don’t expect that a girlfriend is going to fix them. You’re an adult and you can handle it.

Besides, you’re not going to get a girlfriend so she can come in and straighten your life out. You might clean up nice, but how would she ever know? You need to have your problems worked out for yourself before you invite a woman into your life. And then when you do, she’ll be impressed by how smoothly your life is running.

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When you’re picturing your perfect date in your mind’s eye, who do you see? What’s her age? Is she younger than you? You might not want to rule out women who are older than you.

Most women who are more than a couple of years older (currently referred to as cougars– think Demi Moore with Ashton Kutcher) have no problem dating younger men, and as long as you have things in common and are attracted to each other, there’s no problem with this.

Likewise, you can date younger women with relatively few troubles as long as you have common ground. When you allow for dating that’s maybe a few years out of what you might call your ideal range, you stand to meet many more interesting and fun women, possibly the right one for you.

Even though you’ve opened yourself to the possibilities of more dates, there are things you need to be aware of when dating out of your age range. Consider carefully whether or not you want to partner up with a woman who wants to have, and can have children.

Some women who are older have children already and are not interested in starting another family. You’re going to find older women in both groups – those that do want kids (or more kids), and those that don’t.

Depending upon age, an older woman may no longer be able to have children.  Younger women, especially those who are significantly younger than you, can be lots of fun, and they certainly can be attractive.

But younger women may or may not have the maturity that you’d like to see in someone you want to be in a committed relationship with. Very young women, or younger women who are new to dating after a long-term relationship, might just be looking for fun right now.

That’s great, but if you’re looking for a possible real relationship, someone who’s just looking for a roll in the hay or a fun night out doing shots might not be your best bet. There are young women out there who possess maturity and are very well developed emotionally.

Another caution where younger women are concerned is that they may just be looking for a sugar daddy. Of course, this could happen with older women, too. Sometimes young women are attracted to older men because they are established professionally and are more financially stable than men in their age group.

Unfortunately, they might be looking for a stable, nice guy to foot the bill for continuing education or just a lot of clothes and a nice house. Be sure you get to know any younger date very, very well, before you commit to her. Gold digging is a common practice in some circles.

Just remember that you’ll meet great, stable, healthy (both physically and emotionally), beautiful women in their twenties, thirties, forties, fifties and beyond. If you’re happy being with them, and you share common interests and goals, then go for it.

But you’ll also meet gold-diggers and women who want someone to take care of them financially and otherwise – they come in all ages as well. As with any dating situation, know what you want, and what you don’t.

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There are plenty of ways to get women’s attention, but not all of them are good. Sometimes guys can come across as crazy or creepy when all they wanted was to get noticed.

Some men tend to show off, others are too intimate too early, and others are way too obviously desperate. Flirting is the art of catching a woman’s attention in a positive way. There’s no reason to do anything crazy to get a woman’s attention if you know how to flirt properly.

And flirting is surprisingly easy once you’ve practiced a little!  Here are a few guidelines to keep in mind:

• Never, ever sneak up behind a woman to introduce yourself. If you ever do, hope that she doesn’t know martial arts and that she has a more than phenomenal sense of humor. Her first impression of you won’t be flattering, either. She’ll most likely remember you as someone who can’t be trusted.
• Don’t stare, especially at any body part that isn’t her eyes. You want to meet her eyes in a relaxed, casual and friendly way.
• Flirt with one woman at a time. If you choose a woman to flirt with, you’re telling her that you think she’s special. It ruins the message if you think every woman in the room is special enough to flirt with, and it makes you look desperate.
• Be sincere. If you end up saying something that sounds stupid, it’s better if you meant it honestly. You can be forgiven for sounding silly, but never for being dishonest.
• Start at a distance and slowly work your way closer. Check her out from across the room, and if she notices you, smile at her. There isn’t any reason to pretend you weren’t checking her out – you were, and you’re going to be upfront about it, but you aren’t going to stare or drool.
• Don’t come any closer than arm’s length. If she wants to get closer to you, she can, but that’s her decision. Getting right next to her when she doesn’t know you will make her move away from you. On the other hand, keeping a little bit of distance and speaking softly will encourage her to move closer to you on her own.
• Keep your body language consistent. If you’re open to meeting this woman, then your posture should be open, your arms won’t be crossed, and your eyes should meet hers.
• Watch her body language. If your flirting is working, she’ll be flirting back. Glancing at you, smiling, and keeping her posture open are signs that things are going well.

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