None of those ideas are accurate. The truth about what women want is simple. And here it is: Each woman is different. In order to know exactly what she wants, you need to ask her. If that doesn’t match up with what you already have to offer, then you need to move on.

 That said, there are several qualities that most women desire in a man, and it doesn’t hurt to see which ones you have or are willing to develop. In fact, it can help you a lot in your personal life.

 Most women want a secure, confident, financially and emotionally steady man. The details may be different, but the effect is the same: a man who has a stable life isn’t likely to ruin theirs.

Some women who’ve been brought up in an unstable home are going to be a little confused about the meaning of a stable life, but for the most part, women like relationships that are a safe bet to improve their lives.

 Your attitude, above all, is going to determine how attractive you are. If you take care of yourself physically, emotionally, financially, and mentally, you are already more attractive than any man out there who thinks women only like jerks.

 If your financial affairs are in order, you are free to see the difference between women who only want money and the ones who are truly interested in you. If you carry yourself in a confident manner, you are already more attractive than men who think women only want younger versions of their fathers or that they don’t have any idea what they want. 

What women want is simple, easy to learn, and follows common sense. You don’t have to do crazy things to get noticed or make yourself attractive. You need to do just the opposite – be practical in your everyday life and it will pay off later.

 So now, your homework is to look at your life and see the areas that need to be taken care of. If you have problems, don’t expect that a girlfriend is going to fix them. You’re an adult and you can handle it.

Besides, you’re not going to get a girlfriend so she can come in and straighten your life out. You might clean up nice, but how would she ever know? You need to have your problems worked out for yourself before you invite a woman into your life. And then when you do, she’ll be impressed by how smoothly your life is running.

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If you really sincerely like her, and you think a kiss is appropriate, then from your side of the equation, it’s okay. If you’re iffy about how you feel about her after the date and you’re not certain you’re planning to ask for a second date, then don’t bother – it might confuse her and lead to problems in the future. If you aren’t into her, leave kissing and everything else alone.

Next, you need to be aware of signals that she’s sending. If she’s leaning in, that’s a pretty sure sign that she’s into you and would like a kiss. If the two of you are cuddled close with your arms around each other, it’s a safe bet she’d give you a green light.

If she’s affectionately touching you on the hand, arm or shoulders, you can try a kiss. Some women don’t bother with innuendo and simply ask for a kiss. If so, you’re in luck. But remember, it’s okay for her to ask, but not so much for you to ask. You need to relax and wait for her signal.

Having said all of that, there is a school of thought that says you should be a complete gentleman and not kiss her on the first date regardless. This might gain points for you as a sincerely nice person, since every girl knows that the bad boys will go in for the kill as soon as possible.

If you refrain from trying to kiss her, it’s possible that she’ll view you as a gentleman, but it will also intrigue her a bit and make her wonder if you like her as much as she likes you. There’s nothing wrong with letting her wonder – it’s part of the dating game, too.

You can substitute taking her hand in yours and telling her what a great time you had. You can even give her a gentle peck on the forehead or the cheek. Some women consider this especially sweet, but they’re still left wondering a little, and in this case, that’s good.

That first kiss is always an anticipation-filled event. But if your timing is off, or if she isn’t into you yet, you’re going to end up disappointed. It’s better to wait for the right signals, and be aware of how you feel, too. If you’re into each other, it will happen at the right time under the right circumstances.

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Stay away from anything cheesy and even the over-used, “Don’t I know you from somewhere?” There are better ways to break the ice and get a conversation started.

At Work:

• Offer to help. If she’s carrying something, setting something up, taking something down, or otherwise doing something that it looks like she might appreciate some assistance with, offer it.
• Ask her something. Ask her if she knows where the mechanical pencils are stored or if she has the phone number for the Rochester branch, or if you could borrow her packing tape (then return it with your thanks and a cup of coffee).
• Compliment her. Tell her that you thought she did a great job with the presentation or that you like the way she handled that rude customer, or that you thought the joke she told in the break room was really funny.
• Ask her to help you. Ask her to show you how to do something on the computer, or to explain how pro-rated vacation time works.

At the Gym, Bark Park, Book Club, Cooking Class, Etc.: 

• Smile and say, “Have you ever tried the spinning class? I’m thinking of trying it.”
• If you’re at the Bark Park, compliment her four legged friend such as saying, “Nice puppy. Is he purebred?”
• At the library, ask, “How do you feel about this book? I’m having a love/hate relationship with the main character.”
• If you’re in a class together in college or for a specific skill, ask, “Have you enjoyed the class so far? My friends are pretty impressed with my newfound cooking abilities!”

At the Bar:

• Say, “Gosh it’s loud in here, isn’t it?” Or ask what time the bar closes. You don’t have to seem like you’re trying to meet her – she just happens to be the one you start talking to.

You’ll get far more points for noticing that she could use a hand or that she has a cute dog, or that she has a nice smile than if you try to come off as some sort of misguided Don Juan.

Pick up lines and cheesy icebreakers seldom work.  If you need to practice and think of possible lines in order to be prepared for any chance that might present itself, that’s fine, but you have to remain flexible and relaxed so that you don’t sound like you were just waiting to use that line on the first girl that happened to come along.

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Or maybe you just don’t want to say anything because you’ve gotten the brush off before and you assume it’s because of what you said. If this sounds like you, take heart. You don’t have to spend the rest of your life spouting gibberish at every pretty girl you see and then slinking home in embarrassment.

 Women like to see confidence in a man. Not cockiness, but confidence. You have to find ways to project that. Confidence is projected not only by what you say, but the way you walk and stand, and by other kinds of body language like eye contact and your smile. Here are some good tips for helping you get past your shy, tongue-tied self.

 1.Walking and standing – Don’t try the John Travolta Saturday Night Fever walk unless you’ve got the music going in the background! Walking with confidence means that you’re posture is straight, your head is up and shoulders relaxed (not slumping). It should look natural. If you don’t think you can do it, watch your favorite actors, politicians, sportscasters, etc., and emulate them. If this sounds stupid just remember that if you have a Napoleon Dynamite walk (or run), you’re going to look awkward. Confident standing is a natural extension of a confident walk. You need to be straight, but relaxed. You don’t have to look like a Marine at attention. Folding your arms makes you look defensive or like you’re hiding something. You’re better off putting them in your pockets or holding a drink or file or car part or your grocery bag.

2.Eye contact – You have to be able to look a woman in the eye. Staring is wrong, unless you want to scare her. When you are talking to her, look at her for a few seconds, and then briefly look away – not like you’re distracted, just natural eye movement. At the beginning of a conversation, when you are greeting her and introducing yourself, hold eye contact for a few seconds and smile. The same thing should happen at the end of the conversation. This is tricky. Just do what comes naturally, unless your natural inclination is to look at the floor or stare during the whole conversation.

3.Smile – Smiling is like eye contact. Utterly necessary, but easy to overdo.

4.The talk – Now that you have figured out how to project confidence visually, you need to back that up with conversation. Any conversation you have with a new woman should be positive and fun. If you need to rehearse a few different opening lines that can be used for any occasion that’s fine. If you’re at the gym, you can smile and ask her what she thinks of the new row of elliptical machines that have been added. If you’re at church, you can mention how much you like that Pastor So-and-So adds humor to his sermons. If you’re at the NASCAR race, you can compliment her on her choice of favorite driver (as indicated by the t-shirt or ball cap she’s wearing). If she smiles and seems interested in having a conversation with you, you need to confidently take the ball and run. Be prepared.

 Talking to new women can be nerve-wracking, but it’s a necessary pre-requisite to dating. Take some time to prepare yourself to present a confident you, and let nature take its course.

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Here’s the thing – those are also characteristics of a good dog. So, what you need is to have those, plus boyfriend characteristics that add to what you’re offering. You can overdo it with all those wonderful traits and end up seeming, again, like a trusted friend, but nothing else.

Let’s look at how women decide what makes a good friend, and what makes a good boyfriend. We’ve already talked about what we’ll now refer to as “dog traits.” That’s not meant to downplay the value of those characteristics at all.

They’re extremely valuable in life. But we need to find out what you must add (or even take away) to get on the potential boyfriend list. One the one hand, a woman doesn’t necessarily want a guy who has had a long list of romances and seems to move from one woman to the next as if there’s a production line.

On the other hand, if she knows you’ve been single forever, she’ll take that as a huge warning sign in neon. But what if you have been single forever? This might be a bit underhanded, and honesty is a very good thing, but you might want to find a way to keep from having that particular truth advertised without lying about it.

You can say that it’s been awhile. You can say that you took some time after your last break-up to find out what was really important in life. You can say that while you do want to share your life with someone, you felt it was important to take time to be alone after your last break-up.

But telling a woman you’ve never had a date will make you sound desperate, and you’ll most likely end up on the good friend list. Here’s another thing that will get you on the best friends forever list, but will ban you from the boyfriends list: sharing your own “must-have” list for the woman of your dreams.

If you care about ever getting a quality date, or a wife, keep your list to yourself because whoever you end up with is most likely not going to have all those things, and she’s not going to be happy knowing that while you and she are having dinner, you’re going through your checklist to size up her shortcomings.

Women want to be accepted for who they are. Yes, there are always things that you would like to be different about her. There are things she’d change about you, too. Women aren’t without lists. But smart daters keep it to themselves.

We’ve already talked a little about desperation. There’s no place for it in dating and romance. Sometimes, it’s hard not to feel desperate, but you’re going to have to put that aside.

If you ask a woman out and she refuses, accept it and move on. Don’t ask her why and don’t keep bugging her. Be gracious about the refusal and start looking for someone else to ask out.

If you pester and demand to know why, you’re going to look desperate. If you just move on, you’re doing yourself a huge favor. She may even find you suddenly a bit more attractive if you don’t get all devastated about her rejection.

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Do you know how to keep a woman happy?  Here is some advice on relationships for men.

The first advice on relationships item I have for you is to always be yourself.  Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show.  But a confident man is the sexiest beast around.  Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women?  That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Next, you should do the little things.  This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time.  Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her.  You shouldn’t take her for granted.  Let her know that you value her.

Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her.  Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at.  They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.”  This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women.  Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children.  They can’t help it.  That’s how evolution designed them.  So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.

You should try to make her laugh.  While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor.  So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests.  It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers.  If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it.  This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes.  And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt.  So, shave on weekends.  Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.  In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her.  You can unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends.  A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over.  So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents.  A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.  Make an effort.

You should always be considerate of her feelings.  Women are less stable than guys.  Part of this is hormonal.  When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things.  At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss.  But, after a while, these things become routine.  If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up.  Try something new.  It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson called “The Magic Of Making Up“. After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.

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Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls.They are:

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.

Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.

Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.

Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.

Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.”

That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.

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What are you going to write in your profile that will induce women do that? And how can you know if your profile is going to attract women that will be a good match for you? This is tricky business because you can’t possibly be successful if your profile makes you look desperate or negative or if you try to portray yourself as someone that you’re not.

Here’s what you need to do to create an charismatic profile that will appeal to the kind of women you want:

1. Be positive. Your profile is not the place for negativity about yourself or your world.

2. Post good pictures of yourself. You may not look like Brad Pitt, but that’s not grounds to use crappy photos that are of poor quality. The first thing women are going to see is your picture. Be sure that it’s recent – to within a year or so – and presents you as pleasant, friendly and ready to meet someone great. You can ask a friend to take some photos (don’t be embarrassed about this – this is serious stuff), or you can find a good candid photo of you that was taken when you were in your element – relaxed and happy.

3. Take time to outline your favorite interests, the most important things in life, what you do for fun, and who you’re looking for in a woman. Do your best to sound unique.   Everyone likes having dinner with that special someone and cuddling by the fire. But does everyone like mediating on the beach, or researching the origins of lost languages? Those are the things that set you apart. And these are the things that will spark the interest of the type of women you want to date.

4. Don’t try to make yourself into someone you’re not. Be you.  You possess unique and valuable qualities, so play up those in your dating profile. Don’t try to portray yourself as a different person just because you believe that may be more attractive.

5. Spelling and grammar – these are two words that you need to keep foremost in your mind before publishing your dating profile. Run your profile through spell/grammar check, and have a friend proofread it to make sure it sounds decent. You can use a little slang if you want to- your profile doesn’t have to sound terribly formal, but it shouldn’t be a nightmare to read, either.

6. Don’t write a novel, but don’t make your profile too short, either. You can give your prospective dates a good overview of your life. This will hopefully spark some interest in her and entice her to make contact with you to find out the details.

Use these 6 tips to creating an online profile that will reveal your best qualities and trigger the interest of the right kind of women. Incorporate these rules of thumb into your profile writing, and you’ll have a much better chance of finding love, or at least the kind of dates you want through the Internet dating scene!

A good site to create your online profile at is Meet Singles 24/7.  The dating site now has a newly re-vamped profile wizard to help you set up a great dating profile.  Listing your interests, specifics, and what you’re seeking in a date is as simple as checking a few boxes!  Of course, you should add more detail once you’re done with the basics, but it’s a great way to get up-and-running quickly in the online dating world.  Go ahead and set one up free today – Here’s that link again: http://meetsingles247.com

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