Steve McQueen had an understated, “cool” kind of bad-boy charm that could easily set a woman’s heart throbbing. Women adored him and loved to be with him. He exuded masculinity and, even though he came off as a little “rough around the edges”, he was very attractive to women.
Here are some of the tactics he used to be successful with women:
#1: Practice Perseverance. If you have a goal, be it a career or a woman, don’t get discouraged. Do not let setbacks or rejection stop you. Don’t stop approaching women just because of a tactless “brush off.” Remember Steve McQueen’s motto: “When I believe in something, I fight like hell for it.”
#2: Practice Makes Perfect. One way to be extremely interesting to women, is to have a lot of different life experiences. Steve McQueen was in the circus, the Marines, he raced motorcycles, all these before he became a wonderful actor.
Having a variety of life experiences will not only make you more interesting, it will give you great conversation topics. Be open to new experiences and add them to the repertoire of interesting things you can talk about.
#3: Be Prepared to Take a Risk From Time to Time. OK, it’s not easy to approach a woman in a bar, but women admire men who take this kind of a risk. They know it isn’t easy, and the man faces rejection, but you will show her that you find the possibility of getting to know her worth the risk.
#4: Be the Center of Attention. Project confidence when you enter a bar or other gathering. Be the best-dressed man there, the one with the most poise. Show off your conversation skills and sense of humor. Don’t just hang with the other guys. Be an individual with your own unique style.
#5: Be Masculine. Women love a manly man, one who isn’t afraid of his own masculinity. Women love a man who is confident, has charm, is capable, resourceful and who can be tough when it’s necessary.
Watch the old Steve McQueen movies if you get a chance. Take notes. His brand of “cool” was very successful with women and will be successful for you, also.
Leonardo DiCaprio has been around for a long time and has established himself as an accomplished actor as well as being successful with women. His looks definitely have something to do with this, but there is more to him than just his boyish good looks. He has a style about him that women – and other men – find captivating and appealing. Here are some dating tips you can learn from Leonardo DiCaprio:
#1: Be Discriminating in the Women You Date. You don’t have to date every attractive woman you meet. Know what you’re looking for in a woman and know your worth. Date women who have the same standards as you. In other words, don’t date women with lesser social status than yourself just because you can. Keep your standards high and you will always have a selection of high-quality women to date.
#2: Grow Older Gracefully. You can’t be a teenage heartthrob forever. Grow up and act your age. Women find men who act and live like responsible adults much more attractive than teeny boppers. Real “women” are attracted to real “men.”
#3: Have Issues in Your Life That You Are Passionate About. For example, DiCaprio is passionate about the environment. You can choose something that you are honestly passionate about and get involved. This will definitely make you more interesting and show that you are a better-rounded individual. Not only will this make you more attractive to women, you will meet women who are passionate about the same things that you are.
#4: Take Pride in Your Career and Being the Best You Can Be at Whatever You Have Chosen to Do With Your Life. Excel. Women find men who take their careers seriously very attractive. They will expect you to take your personal life, with them, just as seriously. Women love men who are ambitious and successful, both in their work life and their private life.
#5: Be Mysterious. Make a woman have to work at it to get to know more about you. Don’t be overeager to respond if a woman calls you – play just a little bit hard to get. Remember, when you think you can’t have something, or that you have to work a bit harder to get something, it gives it more perceived value.
Suave, sophisticated, a little big exclusive and hard-to-get, and passionate are all qualities that should hold you in good stead when you are interested in getting more quality ladies into your life.
Born in Lexington, Kentucky in 1961, George Clooney epitomizes the suaveness and class of men born and raised in the South. He has an old-fashioned respect for women which is refreshing. One top trait that he says makes a man stylish is a sense of humor. As he put it, “For me, a sense of humor is number one. It’s certainly what’s most attractive. It’s not the first thing you notice at 21, but it’s the first thing you notice now.”
He was named as People Magazine’s “sexiest man alive” in 1997 and 2006 not only because of his good looks, but because of his charisma, behavior, style, and class, among other positive traits that any man would do well to copy.
Here are five of his tips for dating success:
#1: Have Respect for the Women You Date – Don’t “Kiss and Tell”
Clooney maintains that if he didn’t keep his private life personal, it wouldn’t be “personal.” This is also his belief when it comes to the women he dates. It’s not anyone else’s business. He says there are more important things in life for people to worry about than who he went out to dinner with last night. This attitude is very appreciated by the women in his life.
So, take a page out of Clooney’s book and don’t discuss your dates with other people, especially other women! If you get a bad rep for talking about your sexual exploits with the other people in your crowd, you soon won’t find any woman who will want to be with you. And what woman in her right mind wants to hear you talk about your past exploits? She will be thinking that if she becomes your next “exploit” you’ll be discussing her at your next night at the bar.
#2: Don’t Be Afraid to Act Your Age
There’s nothing you can do about your age and, more often than not, it’s easy for someone to find out exactly how old you are. Actually, a little maturity is a good thing because women are attracted to suave, “older” men. For one thing, they have more class and poise than a younger man, and they’ve learned how to treat a woman. Also, they’re not so self-conscious and have left that “jerk” phase behind them.
So, remember, be comfortable with whatever age you are. Women will flock to a man who is comfortable in his own skin.
#3: Be Careful of Who You Hang Out With
What kind of men do you include in your close circle of friends? Remember the old saying, “birds of a feather flock together?” What kind of impression will a woman get about you from the people she sees you hanging out with?
George Clooney says that you need to be aware of the type of people in your social circle, especially when you all go out together and hope to meet some nice women.
Don’t let your friends ruin your chances or embarrass you by their behavior.
#4: Have Integrity
Women look for a man who has integrity, not only in his personal actions, but in the causes and beliefs he considers important to his life. Don’t be wishy-washy about what you believe in. Be straightforward. Make yourself someone a woman would be proud to introduce to her family and friends. Be someone who is consistent in their beliefs and someone a woman can trust.
#5: Be Charming
Being charming can take many forms. Giving the woman you’re with your full attention when you are talking, being polite – opening doors, saying thank you and please – being the epitome of a gentleman. Having a confident attitude about yourself. Being gracious. If you will just start to incorporate a more “charming” demeanor into your actions, you will have the women more than happy to be in your company.
These are just a few pointers from one of the most self-confident and charming men in the world today. Incorporate these tips into your life and you will increase your chances of success with the women of your choice.